Mended Mentors
Guiding you to freedom from sexual addiction, healing from betrayal, and
restoration for your marriage.
Whether you're seeking help for yourself or healing within your relationship, we guide men, women, and couples through the spiritual and practical process of healing. You don’t have to go through this alone.
Helping you mend what sexual addiction has broken.
With a husband-and-wife mentoring approach, we support both sides of the story, helping men find freedom, women find healing, and couples rebuild what’s been broken. And if your spouse isn’t ready to begin the journey, you can still take meaningful steps toward healing on your own. No matter where you are in the process, healing is possible—and it starts here.
You’re not alone.
You may be here because something in your relationship feels broken. Maybe addiction has come to light. Maybe trust has been shattered. Maybe you’re overwhelmed, unsure what to do next, or wondering if healing is even possible. You’re in the right place if:
You’re struggling with pornography or sexual addiction
You’ve been deeply hurt by betrayal and don’t know how to move forward
Communication feels strained, disconnected, or nonexistent
You want healing, but don’t know where to start
You feel more like roommates than partners
We’ve been where you are.
We’re Kenny and Susan Smith. After more than 47 years of marriage—much of it without emotional intimacy—our lives were shaken by the discovery of sexual addiction. What followed was a journey of deep pain, but also profound healing.
Today, we have the kind of connection and intimacy we once only hoped for—and we’re passionate about helping others experience the same.
Certified Professional Bravehearts Mentors
AASAT Certified:
Sex Addiction, Partner Betrayal Trauma, Partner Recovery, and Intimacy Anorexia
Healing is possible—and it’s closer than you think.
We’ve walked this road ourselves, and we’ve helped many others walk it too. With the right support, you can move from chaos and confusion to clarity, healing, and restored connection.
Freedom
from sexual addiction
Healing from betrayal and trauma
Restored trust and emotional connection
Deeper intimacy than you thought possible
A clear path forward:
Step 1:
Start with a free consultation.
We get to know your story and where you are.
Step 2:
Begin individual healing work.
Men and women are guided through their own unique healing processes.
Step 3:
Grow together with support.
You’ll receive tools and practices to rebuild connection as a couple.
Step 4:
Continue with personalized guidance.
As you grow, we adapt the process to meet your needs.
“Kenny has a compassionate heart for people who are hurting due to the harmful effects of sexual addiction, because he knows firsthand the damage it does. But he also knows how joyous living in freedom is because of God’s incredible love for us, and wants to come alongside those who need encouragement. He is a tremendous listener and has spoken truth into my life many times. Thanks, my friend.”
—Don, California
“Kenny's support in my journey has been exceptional. He has contributed so much wisdom to my wife and me. What I love the most about Kenny is his willingness to share the truth (that I often want to avoid) in love. Additionally, the accountability calls that we have are Holy Spirit-driven, convicting, and gracious. Kenny's heart is in the right place for this ministry, and the love of Jesus shines bright through his continued support of my wife and me in this journey.”
—James, Florida
Support for every stage of the journey.
We offer both individual and group mentoring to meet you where you are and help you move forward.
Mentoring Services
One-on-One Mentoring
Weekly sessions designed to guide you through healing, growth, and lasting change.
Group Mentoring
Small, supportive groups where you can connect with others who understand what you’re going through.
Couples Support
Intentional sessions to rebuild trust, improve communication, and restore intimacy.
Speaking & Retreats
Teaching and guidance for churches, groups, and communities navigating these challenges.
Guidance rooted in both experience and truth.
Healing requires more than information; it requires understanding, wisdom, and the right kind of support.
We guide both the clinical and spiritual sides of healing.
You gain insight from both a husband’s and wife’s perspective.
We’ve lived this journey ourselves—we don’t just teach it.
Our approach is personal, honest, and deeply supportive.
You’ll be guided with both truth and compassion every step of the way.
Transformation Testimonies
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Transformation Testimonies ·
“Susan has written Triage from the heart, as one who has experienced betrayal trauma and overcome it. Triage is a lifeline! Working through all the lessons helped me process my own trauma from pain and anger, to hope and healing for my soul.”
— Pauline, South Africa
'When life, as you knew it, falls apart, that is the time you need someone to come alongside you to help you navigate the trauma. I’ve learned that the best person for this job is not only someone who has lived the same trauma, but who has also done the hard work to survive it. Susan Smith was that person for me. Her Triage curriculum is the perfect material to walk you through the process of recovery.”
— Jenna, Maryland